On Being Profound

 

Introduction

Extraordinary time

                    

Liturgically we now exit Ordinary Time  with its color green, and move into the Extraordinary time of the Advent-Christmas season. The Roman liturgical calendar of 1969 states that Advent isn't a penitential season anymore. Its new mood is one of joyful expectation. Unlike the old Advent, we  may party now and celebrate in the new Advent. Even the color of the season, in some places, has been changed from penitential purple to blue in honor of  Mother Mary and Baby Boy Jesus. What's not new is the division of the Advent into a first and second part.

 

Advent: first part

The first part of Advent gazes into the future to the Second Coming of Christ. The liturgical readings for this first part are from the prophets, especially Jeremiah and   Isaiah, who speak to us of the Divine Promises. All the verbs are in the future tense because that’s the tense of promise. In fact, this  first part practically stones us to death with  the future tense: //”The days are coming, says the Lord, when I will fulfill the promise I made to the House of Israel and Judah” (Jer 33:14). //"And they shall melt down their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks. One nation shall not raise the sword against another.  Nor shall they train for war again"  (Is 2:4-5). //"Then the wolf shall be a guest of the lamb, and the leopard shall lie down with the kid"(Is 11:6).  //"On that day the deaf shall hear the words of a book. And out of the gloom and darkness the eyes of the blind shall see" (Is 29:18). //And then from the Book of Revelation: ”And God will dwell with them and they shall be God’s people. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and there shall be no more crying and no more dying” (Rev 21:3-4).  Etc., etc.

                       

Advent: second part

The second part of Advent, called "Late Advent," begins on the 17th of December with the Novena of Christmas. Suddenly everything changes. The first part of Advent gazed into the future, to the Second Coming of Christ. The second part looks backward into the past, to that first coming of Christ, to that moment of history when in Bethlehem Mary bore a son  "with love beyond all telling."

 

From the 17th on, the scripture readings tell us one story after the other. So the verbs now are in the past tense (because stories are about past events).   //Once upon a time there was an old priest offering incense before the altar, and behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him and said: "Zechariah, your ancient wife, who has been sterile all her life, is to conceive and have a child..." (Lk 1:5 etc.).  //Once upon a time there was a maiden at prayer, and behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to her and said: "Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee..." (Lk 1:26 etc.).  //Once upon a time there was a man named Joseph and he was puzzled about his espoused wife being with child.  And behold, an angel  of the Lord appeared and said: "Don't be afraid to take Mary  as your wife for what is conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit" (Mt 1:18 etc.).

 

This second part delights us because we love story-telling. The second part delights us because it brings us closer to his birthday, and we all like birthday parties. The second part delights us because it triggers in us the sense of expectation which we used to have as kids when Christmas Eve was drawing near.

 

Second part: somber

But there’s really nothing  exciting or  delightful about this first part of Advent. If it is anything,  it is somber.  The first part is all about the Divine Promises made us. But there’s nothing  delightful about Promise.  For Promise  is about something delightful that we don’t have but wish we did.  It is about something delightful that we don’t have now  but have to wait for, and have to believe (take it on faith) that we one day will have it. Promise is about “the best that yet to be”   because what we have at present is by no means the best.

 

Year  2000, soon to leave us, was by no means “the best.” Last New Year’s Eve, we hailed  it in as a new born babe bathed in light. But Year 2000,  like every other year, has grown dark and cold on us. Palestinians and Israeli  kept “training for war” and refused to melt down their tanks and machine guns, and turn them into “pruning hooks.”     Democrats and Republicans were and are (more now than ever before) right up there with the Palestinians and the Israeli, refusing as “wolves and lambs  to be the guest of one another,” and  refusing as “leopards and kids to lie down with each other.” 

 

Year 2000, like every other year,  has had its share of tragedies: sunken submarines, airplane crashes, and burnt-out mountain passes. It has had its share of bereavements and losses for all of us:  Some have lost a loved one: a child, a parent, a spouse of 30, 40, 50 years, and yes, even a pet “of human estate.” So there’s going to be a hollow feeling in the heart  and an  empty chair at the Christmas table this year.  Some have received  a  chilling verdict from  their doctor or some other bad news.

 

And Year 2000 has had its share of all those other negatives of life that have the taste of death about them:  loss of job, loss of limb, loss of property, loss of friendship, loss of reputation.  --  Yes, indeed, this very sad world is by no means the very best.   If it were, there wouldn’t be anything to promise.  But sad it is. And the sadder it is, the more we cry out for the divine Promise  “to wipe away all tears from our eyes, and to put an end to all crying and all dying” (Rev 21:3-4). This is true whether we are aware of it or not.

 

The orgy of Christmas

I   guess the point is this:  before we get on with the fun and celebration of Christmas (the second part) the first part would put us in touch with this very sad world of ours and with the divine Promises made to it.  I guess the point is this: the first part of Advent challenges us to deal  first with the tragic dimension of our human lives, and to save the fun and celebration  for afterwards. It’s the only mature and adult way to live.

 

I guess the point is this: we should not turn  Christmas into an orgy of things and fun. Do that, and we destroy Christmas. (We do do that, and we do destroy Christmas.) Let me explain. At “this time of the rolling year,” I  always find myself going in opposite direction of the flow.  I find myself asking, where do we get this idea that Christmas is all fun? It wasn’t fun for Joseph and Mary: En route to Bethlehem, the city of David, they are overtaken with the pangs and labors of childbirth, and they have to take refuge in a stable because there is no room in the inn. Where did we get this idea that Christmas is all fun? The red of the Christmas season isn't just  the red of the Poinsettias. It’s also the red of  blood:  The very next day after Christmas, Dec. 26th, we commemorate the blood of St. Stephen, the first martyr of the New Testament. Then on Dec. 27th, the blood of the Holy Innocents, those baby boys, two years and younger, slain by King Herod, causing  “a loud cry in Rama  --   Rachel weeping for her children because they are no more” (Mt 2:16-18).  Then on Dec. 29th, the blood of Thomas A Becket, archbishop of Canterbury murder in his cathedral 1170  by King Henry II of England.>>

 

Again, at “this time of the rolling year,” I  find myself swimming up stream. Most of the season’s songs sing that this is  “the happiest time of the year.” And I always find myself saying, “No it isn’t. It’s the saddest time of the year” (I think we’re both right). It is the saddest time of the year for all those people who lost loved ones in a burnt-out mountain pass and a sunken sub turned into tombs. Saddest time of the year for all those who lost a partner of 30, 40, 50 years. Saddest time of the year for all those  who have received a verdict of terminal illness from the their doctor. Saddest time of the year for that partner who must watch  "the long long good bye" of a very beloved but now dementiated spouse.  Saddest time of the year for all those who have made a terribly irretrievable mistake in their lives?  Saddest time of the year for all of them precisely because it is the “happiest time of the year. (So I guess we’re both right.)

 

Turn Christmas into an orgy of things and fun,  and we exclude all those who weep (that’s a lot of people). We exclude them,  and eventually we have them excluding themselves. We’ve heard  a spouse, bereaved of a life-long partner, say,  “There won’t be any Christmas for me this year.” Where did we get this idea that Christmas is not for those who weep?

 

For me the really profound Christmas cards are the sad ones:  pictures of the Infant shivering in the cold and warmed by the breath of beasts? Or sketches of deer and birds seeking shelter from the blasts of winter in the compassionate arms of an evergreen?  For me the really profound Christmas carols are the sad ones: songs about wanting to be home for Christmas but there are too many miles to go, or verses about poor drummer boys who have nothing to offer but themselves.  For me the really profound  Christmas stories are the sad ones: stories about lonely Ebenezer Scrooge and lame Tiny Tim.

 

On being profound

Garrison Keillor, author of Lake Wobegon, tells of the great Thanksgivings  spent at his grandparents' farm.  He writes of the piping-hot kitchen stove, of the steaming pots and pans,  of the heavenly aromas of pies and pudding, and of turkeys and trimmings.  The kids  were all turned lose into the snow outside, and weren't allowed in until the turkey and the trimming  were ready.  Once when they were waiting to go in,  all the kids huddled together in an old farm car, and there sang sad songs. Then Keillor makes the profound observation: "You know, it is the suffering, the sorrow, and the sadness that makes the holiday."  Profound. Turn Christmas into an orgy of  things and fun, and we destroy that holiday and holyday.

 

Conclusion

Turn Christmas into an orgy of things and fun,  and we exclude all those who weep. That’s a lot of people, with most of ourselves included. Most of us weep, if  not now, later for sure.

 

Turn Christmas into an orgy of things and fun, and we end up with that familiar depression that hits us when  the curtain goes down on the season, and the lights are turned off,  and the Christmas tree has been defrocked and thrown out there on the curb,  together with our orgy.

 

This isn’t some crusade against the “consumerism of Christmas;” producing, selling and buying is the way people make a living. This is against orgy.  This isn’t a crusade against the fun celebrations of Christmas.  This is against orgy. Better yet, this is all about being profound; it’s all about  going in search of the joy that no body and no thing can take from us, not even the sun as it sets on our Christmas day.