The wall and the well

 

Introduction

The Berlin Wall

Xenophobia: fear of the outsider.

August 13, 1961, goes down in history as  the day the Berlin Wall was born. It was 10 feet wide and 15 feet tall. It ran for 28 miles through the city of Berlin. It was built in order to lock people in and to stem an exodus of historic proportion.  The wall killed 191 people who refused to be locked in, and who died trying to scale it.  The wall was  built also to lock people out: to lock out the outsider, the foreigner, the stranger. It was, therefore,  a xenophobic wall. Xenophobia: fear of the stranger or foreigner: i.e. fear of  the one who doesn’t look like us but should;  doesn’t speak like us but  should;  doesn’t worship like us but should doesn’t;  doesn’t think the way we think but should;  etc. 

 

Erich Honecker, an old party chief,  vowed that the wall would stand for a hundred years; it lasted  only 28. In one historic moment, at the stroke of midnight, Nov. 9th, 1989, mobs scaled the wall, and with hammer and chisel tumbled it  down. << Time magazine said,  "It was one of those rare times when the tectonic plates of history shift beneath people's feet, and nothing is quite the same anymore. For West and East Germans it was Christmas, New Year's and Easter all rolled into one"(Time Nov. 20).  The only ones missing that historic moment were the 191 people who tried to scale the wall  but were killed. >>

 

The Temple Wall

There was a similar wall in the days of Jesus. It did not run through the heart of a city but through the heart of the very temple itself, which Isaiah  called  "the house of prayer for all peoples" (56:7). The wall was 5 feet tall and was made of stone.  It divided the inner court of the Jews from the outer court of the Gentiles (those foreigners, those outsiders who don’t think like  Jews or pray  like  Jews or eat like  Jews  but should).  The wall  separated the chosen Jew from the unchosen Gentile.

 

<<It supposedly was commanded by God in the blue-print of the temple.  Supposedly built by “divine will,” it  was a  “holy wall.” In reality the wall  was built more by human hands than by divine will, and it a good example of religion's ever-present "unholy" temptation to ignite hostility, to divide people, and to   destroy true peace. In Ephesians (2nd reading) Paul speaks of "the enmity (the bad blood, the hostility) between Jew and Gentile caused by the religious rules and regulations of the Law of Moses" (Eph 2:15). >>

 

Like the Berlin Wall, this one also killed! On it were attached xenophobic signs prohibiting any foreigner (Gentile), under the pain of death, from going beyond the prescribed line. <<In fact a stone inscription was found in 1871 near the temple area, threatening death to any Gentile who passed beyond this "Check-point-Charlie" located in the very house of God. This same  wall almost killed St. Paul. In Acts we read that some Jews from the Province of Asia tried to put Paul to death because they claimed he had introduced an Ephesian foreigner beyond the forbidden  wall (Acts 21:28-29). >>

 

Like the Berlin Wall, this wall too was torn down, and by no other than Christ.   Jesus scaled the Cross, and with hammer and chisel in his pierced hands  died up there.  At that moment the curtain of the temple was rent in two and the "tectonic plates of history shifted." At that moment, Paul writes, "he tore down the wall of hostility that used to keep us enemies, and made the two of us (Jew and Gentile) one, and so he has brought us peace” (Eph 2:14-16).

 

Our walls

(many, hidden, xenophobic)

We Catholics shouldn’t raise our eye-brows over a wall of separation in the very house of God. We  have many separating walls of our own in the church.  There’s a wall that separates the followers of Trent with its Latin mass and the followers of Vatican II. There are walls in our church that separate clergy and laity,  men and  women,  straights and gays, rich and poor, black and white. In the house of God, there’s a wall that separates so-called “liberals” and “conservatives.”

 

For the most part, they are hidden walls;  we have them pushed down or smoothed over or covered up.  We choose not to see the problem and feel its acuteness. So the peace around us is only apparent; it is not  “the kiss of peace; it’s  a patched-up affair.” Though hidden,  the walls are there,  and  given the right occasion they surface, and sometimes with a vengeance. For example, you’ve just finished Mass and someone comes up to you,  and expresses great joy and elation and thanks. Then along comes someone else who is very very angry, and  wants to know why you skipped the creed, or why you  didn’t utter  the exact official words of consecration over the bread and wine, or why you disobey  the magisterium of the church.

 

Something else about our walls of separation: they are basically xenophobic.  People who don’t think as we do  but should, or  don’t feel the way we feel about matters but should, -- they are considered outsiders, foreigners, even abnormalities or deviants, i.e. “not on the right path” (by which we mean  our path).  For some mysterious reason, such people are a threat to us, and they fill us with fear. So we exclude them, or worse yet, we exterminate them by means sometimes refined and sometimes not so refined. 

 

World-view/ideology

But here is the most important consideration of all: though our  many walls of separation  concern  different issues,  they have one thing in common: they  represent competing world-views, they  represent  competing ideologies.

 

What in the world is a “world-view” or “ideology”? (Sounds highfillutin but it’s a simple idea.) World-view or ideology is  a whole web of basic values within you and me, and that web says to us,  “This is the way the world is supposed to be.” And then we say to the world, “This is the way you are supposed to be.” World-view,  ideology  --  a whole web of basic assumptions and values, that are almost articles of faith within us, and profoundly influence the way we look at life and other people and the world around us.

 

The ancestral well

Where in the world do you and  I get our world-view or ideology?  We draw it out  from the ancestral well from which we’ve been drinking all our lives. What in the world is the ancestral well? We are all conceived as "tabula rasa"--as clean slates and innocent babes. But no sooner are we born into this world than we are led to drink from the ancestral well. Some of the best stuff that's in us is drawn from that well. Some of my best recipes for  spaghetti sauce come from the well.  My  warm   Italian nature comes from it. My sense of Italian hospitality comes from it. At the ancestral well we imbibe not only the best of  our  ethnic traditions, but also the good values we believe in and the decent priorities with which we arrange our lives.

 

But this is also true,  some of the worst stuff that's in us is imbibed  from the ancestral well which contains also murky and brackish waters. From it  we drink in murky and brackish judgments and assumptions about this and that, which color  all our thoughts, words and deeds. And those judgments are pre-judgments and  those assumptions are “pre-assumptions” because we don’t carefully and thoughtfully think them out but simply swallow them up and gulp them down.

 

Out of such  an unthinking well arise our so-called strangers or  foreigners or  outsiders or  deviants – those people who deviate from our world-view. From such a well arise those  people  who   should be looking like us but don’t; praying  like us but don’t; eating like us but don’t.  The very first  moment we start drinking from such a well,  we start losing our innocence.

 

The woman at the well

Remember the story  of Jesus and the women at Jacob's well. It’s a  story of competing world-views, competing ideologies. (Jn 4:5-42). She claims it’s on Mt. Gerizim that everyone should be      worshipping God ”but you Jews, you deviants, don’t.”  From where did she get that presumption?  From the  ancestral well  from which she’s been drinking all her life. The  Jews claim it is in  Jerusalem that everyone should be worshipping God “but you Samaritans, you    deviants,  don’t.”  From where did  Jews get that presumption? From their ancestral well from which they’ve been drinking all their lives. Jesus  refuses to drink from it. Instead he declares that the day is coming when people will worship the Father "not here on this mountain, nor even in Jerusalem, nor in any temple built by human hands, but they will worship God in spirit and truth" (Jn 4:24).

 

The ancestral drinking continues. The woman asks Jesus, “How can you, a man and a respected rabbi, be talking to me, a yukie woman,  in public?” (Jn 4:5-42). Where in the world did she get this prejudice against her own gender?  Why, of course, she swallowed it in at the ancestral well.

 

Still more drinking from the  ancestral: The woman asks, "How can you, a Jew,  ask me, a so-called yukie Samaritan, for a glass of water?" She’s echoing a Jewish prejudice against Samaritans. From where did the Jews get their racism? From their ancestral well.  In that well flowed  murky waters that claimed  the Jews are pure breeds and Samaritans are  impure mongrels. <<Jesus refused to drink from that well. In fact, he goes out of his way to tell his fellow Jews good stories about these impure mongrels. "Once upon a time there was a man going from Jerusalem to Jericho, and he was waylaid by robbers and left half-dead. Along came a Jewish priest and levite  and they didn't stop but passed the poor man by. But then along came a Samaritan, and he  stopped."  The ancestral well says, “Every Samaritan is bad;” the parable says, “Wrong! Some of them are good; in fact very good. “>>

 

Ethnics at the well

Every infant  born  into a Palestinian household   drinks of the ancestral well, and knows for sure that every Jew is  bad; vice versa.  Every infant born into a Protestant household in Northern Ireland  drinks from the ancestral well,  and knows for sure that every Roman Catholic is  bad; vice versa.  Every infant born into an Orthodox Serbian household  drinks of the ancestral well, and know for sure that all Catholic Croatians are bad; vice versa.  And so the drinking goes on and on, and so the hating goes on and on, and so the killing goes on and on.

 

A friend at the well

Much closer to home --  listen to this piece of  ancestral drinking: A friend writes, “I was raised in a conservative working class family in Cincinnati, Ohio. Being of German heritage, I was taught from my earliest memory, to challenge nothing that Holy Mother Church teaches. I was taught to respect all persons in positions of authority: teachers, parents, aunts, uncles, police, government officials, etc. I was taught  to work for what I wanted and to wait until I had cash  to buy it. I was taught the Lord helps those who help themselves. And I was taught there is no excuse for being dirty because everyone can afford a bar of soap.”

 

 How do you like that for ancestral drinking? That’s what we mean by a “world-view.” That’s what we mean by an “ideology.” Can you sense the mischief that lies waiting in the wings? Our world-view is comfortable; the truth is not. The man writes:  “The truth hurts, especially if you are comfortable and are living in Grafton or Cedarburg.”

 

Gulped down not chewed

Our world-view or  ideology, our web of assumptions and values which say to us, “This is how the world should be,”   --   for the most part is unexamined;  is not reflected upon (but is simply swallowed and gulped down) --  until it is  challenged in some very powerful way. What if  one day your world-view is about to destroy  someone you love?  Then what? Then indeed you  reexamine, reconsider, review, reflect.

 

"Consenting Adults" is a movie about an upper-middle-class-white family. The son reveals his homosexuality to his parents. Both had drunk deeply from the ancestral well. So  both are weeping and wailing over this ”horrible” revelation; they’re weeping and wailing  for themselves and not for their son. The son wants only one thing from them: to be embraced and kissed by his father and mother. The father refuses to examine and reflect; he dies without ever embracing and kissing his son. The mother, whose innate mother’s love is stronger than any world-view or ideology, eventually embraces and kisses her "leper" son. At that moment he knows he's embraceable and kissable.  At that moment, he is healed as he will have to be healed over and over again in the years to come.

 

Conclusion

Our task as human beings is to drink thoughtfully and deliberately at the well. Our task is to do what  human beings are created to do and what my dog Simeon can't do:   reflect,  ponder, think things out for ourselves,  instead of swallowing and gulping them down. At such a good well we become not our ancestors but our own persons and our own true selves. 

 

Our world-view is perhaps our most prized possession of all our possessions. Our task as Christians  is  to renounce our possessions, realizing that some of worst possessions(just as some our best)  are not in our hands but in our hearts and heads  -- in our world-view.   Through  such renunciation we regain our innocence lost, and we find ourselves worshipping God, not on Mt Gerizim nor in Jerusalem but in spirit and truth.