Open Letters
to Popes and Pops
(Fathers Day)
Introduction
Context: persecution
In this tenth chapter of Matthew, who is our instructor
for the next twenty Sundays, Jesus is speaking about the persecution awaiting
those whom he calls and sends forth as prophets. “I am sending you forth like
sheep into a pack of wolves. So be cautious like snakes but gentle as doves. Be
on your guard. There are persecutors out there who will take you to court and will
scourge you in their synagogues. They will drag you before governors and kings
because of me.... Do not worry about what you are to say; when the time comes words
will be given you; for it will not be you who are speaking but the Spirit of
your Father speaking in you…. What I tell you in the dark proclaim in the full
light of day. What I whisper into your ears announce from housetops” (Mt
Be not be afraid
It is in that context of persecution that Jesus in
the gospel today twice bids us not to be afraid. “Don’t be afraid of those who
can kill the body but cannot kill the soul…. Are not two sparrows sold for a
small coin? Yet not one of those tiny
little creatures falls to the ground without God being mindful of it. God is
even mindful of every single hair on your head. So do not be afraid; you are worth
much more than many sparrows” (Mt.
The gospels abound with the exhortation not to be
afraid. When Joseph is troubled to
discover that Mary is pregnant, an angel of the Lord appears to him
saying, ”Joseph, son of David, do not be
afraid to take Mary as your wife, for it is by the Holy Spirit that she has
conceived” (Mt 1:20). When the Angel
Gabriel appears to old priest Zachariah offering incense before the altar of
God, he’s frightened, and the angels says, “Zachariah, do not be afraid! God
has heard your prayer, and your wife Elizabeth will bear a son, and you will
call him John” (Lk
Prophets aren’t afraid
It is especially when God calls
someone to be a prophet that God bids one not to be afraid. Prophets are called
to tell people what they need to hear but do not want to hear, and that can
make people mighty angry. So nobody likes being a prophet. In the Book of
Jeremiah we read, “The word of Yahweh was addressed to me, saying, `Before I
formed you in the womb I knew you. Before you came to birth I consecrated and
appointed you as prophet to the nations.’” That appointment scares the daylights
out of Jeremiah. Scripture says he cried
out stuttering, “Ah, Ah, Ah. Lord, I do not know how to speak. I am just a
kid.” But the Lord God replies, “Do
not say to me, `I’m just a kid.’ Go now and tell the people whatever I command
you, and do not be afraid of them, for
I will protect you” (Jer 1:4-8).
Prophets
are people who are not afraid. They are, by no means, bulls in a china shop,
but they are, indeed, not afraid. Archbishop
Raymond Hunthausen was not afraid. Thirty years ago when he became
Prophets are people who are not afraid. Bishop Kenneth Untener of
Last Sunday we spoke of Fr. Francis
Gonsalves, a Jesuit in
Prophets
are people who are not afraid. Archbishop Rembert Weakland was by no means
a bull in a china shop, but he was,
indeed, not afraid. Some years ago he was not afraid to not speak
for a change but simply listen. He was not afraid to not teach for a change but
simply be taught. He
courageously held hearings with the women of the Archdiocese to know their
views on abortion. In his report after the sessions, he unequivocally upheld
the Catholic teaching that abortion is immoral. He warned, however, that the
anti-abortion movement is counterproductive when its focus is narrow, its
tactics aggressive, and its rhetoric ugly and demeaning. The Archbishop also
said his hearings revealed how far apart the church's teaching prohibiting the
use of birth control is from the views of some very conscientious women.
The Archbishop
wasn’t talking but was simply listening. He wasn’t teaching but was simply
being taught. That brought on the great displeasure of some here in
With
a bit of humor the Archbishop later remarked to another prelate how interesting
it was that he should get his name in the New
York Times twice in one year -- both times for doing nothing! First for not
talking but just listening for a change, and then for not receiving an honorary
degree.
An open
letter to Pope Benedict
In these days of open letters to the new Pope, we
write one of our own: Dear Pope Benedict XVI, do not be afraid to be a prophet.
Do not be afraid of being speechless at
times like the prophet Jeremiah. Do not be afraid of stuttering and not having
all the answers. There are some who want you to have all the answers, but do
not be afraid of them.
Dear Holy Father, there are some, and perhaps many,
who complain that our church only speaks but does not listen, only teaches but
is not taught. Do not be afraid to listen to God’s people and to be taught by
them. They are, in fact, always speaking to you. They have their own way of speaking to you.
Many of them have spoken to you with their feet: they have walked away from their
mother, the church. When, in fact, you, Cardinal Ratzinger from Germany, were
elected Pope, instead of someone from South American or Africa, some said the
College of Cardinals wished to draw attention not to Africa where the church is
alive and well but to western Europe--to Spain, France, Germany, and Italy
where most of the people have spoken with their feet and have left their
mother, the church.
Others have
their own way of speaking to you by simply ignoring what you say about birth
control or women in the church or homosexuality, and by simply getting on with
their Catholic lives without you. Holy Father, in our following of the humble
Christ, we may not simply lay all blame on them and dismiss them as “cafeteria
Catholics.”
Dear Holy
Father, do not be afraid to invite our church to hold holy conversations in
which all speak and teach, and in which all listen and are taught, as the great
issues of birth control, divorce, intercommunion, celibacy, women in the
church, homosexuality and priest shortage are being debated. What a wonderful
family such holy conversations would make of us Catholics!
Dear Holy Father, do not be afraid to proclaim in
the full light of day what Jesus tells you in the dark, and to announce from
housetops what Jesus whispers into your ears. Dear Pope Benedict XVI, do not be
afraid to be the Vicar of Christ who was, indeed, a prophet whom religious
leaders persecuted and crucified.
We’ve just spoken our piece to the Pope. The homily
is never ended until we’ve finally spoken to ourselves. Ite, Missa est. Go, the Mass is ended. Mothers and fathers,
husbands and wives, sons and daughters, go home and don’t be afraid of being
speechless and not having all the answers. Go home and don’t be afraid of listening and
of being taught. What a wonderful family
that will make of you!
An open letter to pops
And
on this Fathers’ Day we write also an open letter to fathers. Dear fathers, do
not be afraid of the mission of fatherhood to which you’ve been called. It’s a difficult
mission in this father-unfriendly culture of ours. That’s a culture which seems
to exercise far more influence in raising your kids than you yourself are able
to exercise. That’s a culture which even looks down on you fathers as being
quite dispensable (as screen doors are for submarines) and even regards the
fatherless trend in society as progress.
Dear
fathers, be consoled. Heaven knows better than we humans do. Heaven knows that
every child should have a father. Heaven knows that every woman should have a
helpmate in the arduous task of realizing the incredible potential born of her.
So to him who was born fatherless, Jesus, son of the virgin Mary, heaven
bestowed a father—Joseph the carpenter. See how important fathers are!
Conclusion
Hear what
they are saying
Dear
fathers, do not be afraid to speak to your kids. Speak to them about drugs,
addictions, sex and especially selfishness. But also do not be afraid to listen
to them. They have their own way of speaking to you. Listen to it and hear what
they are saying. When Gary Rosberg, a family expert , was cramming for his
doctrinal thesis in counseling, his young daughter came into his study and
presented him with a sketch she had just drawn. She entitled it "The
Rosberg Family." He gave the picture a quick glance because he was
knee-deep in his thesis. When the
daughter left he gave it a second look. There he saw his wife Sarah, his other
daughter Missy and their dog Katie but no dad did he see there. He called Sarah
back and asked, "Honey, where's Daddy?" She nonchalantly replied, "Oh,
you're at the library." And