Programming
Prospective Workshop Titles and descriptions - All programming subject to change. For more information about workshops, please contact Michael Munson at tgwarrior@execpc.com.
2000 Final List of Workshops"Not Like Me" -- Sexworkers and Street Kids in the Transgender Community
Chest Surgery Overview I: with Michael Brownstein
This overview with Michael Brownstein, MD, popular San Francisco-based plastic
surgeon who has worked for a long time with the FTM
Chest Surgery Overview II: With Dr. Jim Reardon
With Dr. Jim Reardon, New York City-based
Domestic Violence
Our identities as well as our bodies and minds are wounded by all forms of
violence. We, as a gender variant community, are often targets of violence. This
workshop will discuss how sexual violence specifically impacts the TG community.
How does being a survivor of assault affect our loved ones? How does it affect
our transition process? What do Rape Crisis Centers and domestic violence
counselors need to know about us? This will be a safe and supportive space for
those to share personal experiences .
Gynecologic Health
Most everyone wants a healthy body. Even if we can't always have healthy bodies,
most people work hard to avoid illness or poor health. All too often butch and
transpeople choose to ignore their gynecologic health because of wanting to
maintain a masculine presence in the world - or don't want to acknowledge parts
of their body that are associated with being "female". This workshop
will discuss both the importance of routine preventive Gyn healthcare,
non-routine gyn medical issues, as well as how to work with your provider(s) to
make the medical experience less traumatic.
HBSOC: Basics/Overview
Jude Patton (the first transgendered person to be elected to the Harry Benjamin
International Gender Dysphoria Association) and Hawk Stone (a therapist and FTM),
will objectively review the history of the Benjamin Standards of Care. A general
overview of some of the foundations for the SOC, as well as the evolution of the
guidelines will be covered. Jude will also point out how the guidelines
specifically impact FTMs and the professionals we work with. The focus will be
on history and "facts", not a discussion of the pros or cons of the
SOC.
HBSOC: Providers Caucus
An opportunity for providers to discuss the pros and cons of HBSOC. Providers
will have the opportunity to network with other providers and determine possibly
better ways to work with (or without) the SOC.
How to be Helpful: Training for Support Service Providers
This workshop will explore clinical issues in working therapeutically with
trans-masculine-identified people and their family and significant others.
Anyone interested in this topic is encouraged to participate. Depending upon the
needs of our group, topics covered may include: Basic groundwork for clinical
practice with TG/TS individuals; Etiology and theoretical approaches; Family and
partner issues; Case presentations/Personal experiences; and Ethical dilemmas
and Trends in the field.
Intersexed Caucus
A meeting, discussion, and mingling of energies for our community's many and
varied medically intersexed members, and anyone else who is interested in giving
support or getting educated about our unique needs and perspectives.
Living Long Term Caucus
"Post transition" men will have the opportunity to discuss what it's
like to live more of their lives as men, health issues of long term testosterone
usage, relationships, and other issues.
Metaoidoioplasty
Metaoidoioplasty: Presented by Michael Brownstein, MD, will describe this
procedure for bottom surgery, including slides, a detailed discussion of how it
is done, and what are reasonable expectations as well as risks.
Navigating the Land of Therapy 101
How does one go about finding a gender therapist? Interviewing your potential
therapist, discerning if it's a right fit: boundaries, goals, etc. How do the
therapist and client work together as a team? What about the Standards of Care?
What to do when your therapist is not a gender therapist (and how not to be
their educator). How to best utilize the services of the therapist in working
toward wholeness.
no-hos & lo-do-hos
A panel designed for those who are exploring alternatives to physically
transitioning using hormones or surgery and for those who have already decided
that body alteration is not a path they wish to pursue. We will talk about how
"transitioning" does not always mean physically changing our bodies,
but also involves emotionally, socially & spiritually transitioning to
becoming more at peace with our gender and bodies. Both maintaining a
non-hormonally altered body, as well as pursuing/living on low doses of
testosterone will be discussed.
Non-op Caucus
A panel designed for those who are questioning their surgical options, and for
those who have already decided that body alteration is not a path they wish to
pursue.
Nutrition Caucus
We talk so much about supplements and hormones (which we need to do, of course),
but what do we do with what little money we have left when we want to eat for
health?? Eating right helps keep our mind and body channels working in concert
with each other, and places less stress on the body -- and it's really not
expensive to do -- but if you don't kow what to get, and how to combine foods,
what do you do???
Testosterone: The Shot Heard 'Round Our World
An honest discussion of the important considerations,
plans, expectations and possible problems with hormones - testosterone. Kate
Thomas, PhD, RN, CS, FAACS, a sexologist, psychotherapist and former AmBoyz
board member, will address overall health and well-being issues, recommended
pre-testosterone health screenings and bloodwork, cardio-vascular concerns,
gynecologic issues, and cholesterol levels, as well as hormonal regimens.
The FtM Jock's Body Maintenance Crash Course: Fitness and
Nutrition for the Transmasculine
Veteran TSC presenter and FtM jock Drey Fisher answers all your questions when
it comes to fitness and nutrition: masculinizing your body through diet and
exercise, testosterone and your health, improving sports performance,
Top Surgery Show and Tell
Just like it sounds. Guys talk about how they got to the place of having
surgery, what procedure and surgeon they chose and why, recovery, adjustment and
flat-chested life. SOFFA participation strongly encouraged.
Transitioning in a Tempest: Staying Sane and Sober
Many people in the transgender community have or are using substances to cope
with being "different". If you fall into this category, or aren't sure
if you do or not, then maybe this is the workshop for you. Come and share with
us your experience, strength and hope and how you stay sane with all the changes
in your life.
32 Flavors and Then Some: The Many Masculinities of Our Lives
Aging Caucus
Whether you're looking at transitioning now or have all that two decades behind
you, the intersection of aging and trans issues brings up new concerns. Come
talk to your peers and learn what support and advocacy resources we've found.
Building Community Across Labels (Caucus)
Butch to FTM Chat: LIVE
This is an opportunity for good dialog between FTM's and Butches. Much
discussion has been done over the last year ONLINE, regarding several issues
between FTM's and Butches. This is a chance to open up communication between
FTM's and Butches face to face and continue previous online discussions,
regarding
Canadian Caucus
A space for Canadians to gather to discuss issues relating to transition,
hormones, health care and medical procedures Canadian-Style. Come share your
experiences and struggles with
Fat 101- A Revolution in the Making!
Finding Voice in Shifting Space: A Writing Workshop
FTM 101: Things your Parents Never Told You
An FTM 101 of concepts and options available for Transgender Men. Visual
presentation including an honest, in-depth slideshow of top and bottom - good
and bad - surgical results.
Having pride in being trans/Butch
Most people with nontraditional gender expressions have been exposed to many
How to Survive Poverty: People with long term experience
successfully coping with poverty
What is (and isn't) poverty. Discuss strategies for survival, resources and
dangers from Social
Masculine Mannerisms and Speech
A study of societal expectations of "masculine/gender appropriate"
behavior. This presentation will cover mannerisms, voice, and attitude.
Mentoring Masculinity: How We Learn What We Do
Discussion with panel members who have been out and FTM / transman /
butch-identified for different periods of time (i.e., are from different queer
"generations") about how they learned masculinity and who their
mentors were/are. Then we will open up for audience participation and
discussion.
Negotiating Having Visably/Noticeably Trans Bodies
Many of us have masculine appearances, but have characteristics that make others
perceive us as being trans or socially incongruent with what people perceive to
be masculine. This session will be a discussion of how folks deal with having
breasts, "feminine" voices, facial features or other body
configurations that can generate a red flag to members of society. We'll talk
about how we deal with pressure to conform to gender stereotypes & the
One Step Closer to the Edge: FTM, Transman, Butch and SOFFA
Experiences Within Communities of Color
A discussion about how masculinity and femininity are played out in communities
of color, and how those communities' values and norms affect us as FTMs/transmen/butches
and our SOFFAs.
Peer Support Group Techniques for FTMs
You've gotten a bunch of FTMs together. Great. Now what? In this workshop,
you'll learn some fundamental guidelines for facilitating productive FTM support
groups. Topics will include emotional safety, cohesiveness,
People of color caucus
FTMs of Color and SOFFAs discuss the intersection of transgenderism and race,
grapple with accessibility issues, confront myths of transgenderism that don't
apply to POC, give voice to POC experiences, and share resources for those who
are trans and of color, including their SOFFAs.
Queer as Fuck
This panel will be a discussion of the Intersection of Punk, Queer and
Genderfuck territories. We plan to explore queer punk territory and its physical
and emotional commitment to difference and gender non conformity, to change and
direct action. A punk sense of calculated defiance has informed the panel's
gender identities and our passion for those with defiant genders. Appearance is
political, and through rough and extreme gendered appearances we claim the
status of other and outsider as our very own. Punk has also meant confrontation,
confronting ourselves and members of our own communities on a face to face,
personal level, putting
Shades of Gray
Gender discussions tend to be all black and white. Either you're male or you're
female... or you were female and are transitioning to
Stayin' Freaky
For many transmen prior to transition, maintaining a queer aesthetic is an
important part of projecting a queer identity. Frequently, however, testosterone
and passing will change how these queer cues are interpreted: flannel, work
boots, and a crew cut may look severely queer on a woman/female bodied person,
but on a man they simply look 'normal'. Many of us experience this shift as
somewhat suffocating as
Stone Butch Identity
An exploration of what it means to be Stone Butch and how we came to identify
that way. Direct discussion about our sexuality as Stone Butches (with ourselves
and our partners), how we live in the world as highly non-traditionally gendered
people, the challenges we face in accessing medical care, and many other issues.
Style and Clothing for the Self-Made Man
If you find yourself perplexed by the myriad of clothing options for men today,
this is the workshop for you! We'll talk about the various styles of clothes,
what is appropriate for specific occasions and situations, and how to shop. Then
we'll help each of you with specific pointers on your individual style -
including hairstyle, facial hair , clothing that is flattering to you in color
and cut, and accessories.
Talking about Our Bodies: Disability and Trans Identity (Caucus)
In this caucus, disabled and Deaf trans people, our SOFFAs, and interested others will explore the intersections between disability--both visible and hidden--and trans identity. How do we, as disabled people and trans people, deal with the medical establishment, with issues of body image, with a culture that believes disabled people are child-like, asexual, and genderless? In what ways do mental illness, deafness, physical disablity, cognitive disability, chronic illness impact how we meet our needs as trans people? We will come together to support each other and share our experiences.
Allies with Integrity: How Non-Trans Partners can be the Best
Allies We Can Be (Caucus)
What does it mean for non-trans folks to "support" our trans partner(s)?
How do we confront transphobia in others without unsafely outing our partner(s)
as trans? How do we look like straight allies, when we feel like dykes? How ARE
we straight allies? How do we bring experience from other movements (feminist,
people of color, fat liberationist, etc) to trans activism? Some partners talk
about feeling like their entire life disappears in light of their partner(s)'
transition, and this can build resentment. How do we deal with mixed feelings
about our partner(s)' transition? How do we confront our own transphobia, and
distinguish it from your everyday relationship crap?"
GLAAD roundtable about media images of the FTM community
How gender is being covered, uncovered, miscovered, and not covered at all by
the media.
How To Successfully Transition in Your Employment
This workshop will take the participant through the entire process of
transitioning on the job in a practical step by step model. The model Stone
Making the IRS work for you!
Want to learn how to write off your surgery and medical expenses related to
being trans? Need to know how to change your name with the IRS? Join Wally
Moyer, a tax accountant, to learn some of the legal tricks of letting the IRS
work for you.
MediaPresence: Interview Strategy and Technique (GLAAD)
Are you interested in telling the media your story? Do you already find yourself
a frequent spokeperson in your community? Are media interviews something you
would like to navigate better? This highly interactive session will provide the
tools and skills to answer tough questions and prepare for different types of
interviews.
Our Role in the Revolution! How DO We End Oppression In Our
Communities?
What do you mean by a Revolution? We mean let's look at how we are ALL affected
and ultimately hurt by oppression, through cultural, social, and institutional
systems of power and control. Come join us in an interactive workshop looking at
what we can actively do to end racism, classism, heterosexism, ableism and a
variety of other oppressive systems. This is not an in-depth study but a
beginning exploration on how we can deal with these issues not only in our daily
lives but in the
The Politics of Passing: FTMs, Transmen, Butches, and
Privilege
Why some of us pass, either by choice or situation; why some of us make an
effort to not pass; how we pass; and the consequences of passing, both in terms
of accessing a certain kind of male privilege and in terms of being found out as
FTMs, transmen, or butches. (May be a good place in which to talk about hate
crimes against us and our allies, as well as a place to wrestle with the
accusations leveled at us by our own communities that we are traitors to the
feminist/queer rights movement by passing.)
Trans Feminism
The concept of privilege is useful as a tool of critical analysis, even though
transgendered people of both gender vectors (MTF/FTM) are sick of being blasted
with accusations of possessing its male form by either retaining it (by MTFs) or
selling-out to seek it (by FTMs). But the newer forms of privilege - birth
privilege and passing privilege - are much more relevant to transgendered
people, our lives and our place in human society. This seminar will explore
these newer forms of privilege and their relationship to the older traditional
forms of privilege (class, race and gender) and thus provide trans people of
both gender vectors with a means of addressing the power imbalances we ourselves
experience in an intolerant culture. We will discuss the privilege that even
lesbian separatists themselves possess, thus preparing ourselves to meet the
anti-transsexual assault on equal ground for the first time. The goal of the
seminar is to give its participants a glimpse of the potential uses of
transfeminism as a vehicle of their empowerment, as transgendered people, and as
human beings.
Trans Rights 101
A general overview of trans rights. Name changes and other document changes, the
right to marry and work place issues. Insurance coverage issues as well.
Working to Eradicate Racial Privilege and the Rules of Racial
Standing in the FTM Community: Critical Self-inspection as a Pathway to Equity
None born American can assume a male identity untainted by white male standards.
Having failed to organize against this standard, a predominantly white FTM and
MTF leadership has become established in our organizations as
Working with Allied Organizations
There are trans-specific political and service organizations, but much of the
public education, advocacy, and organizational work that addresses trans issues
is actually coming out of non-trans specific groups like the Family Pride
Coalition, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, PFLAG, etc. This workshop will
discuss who's doing what, how you can get involved, and what can be done to
support and increase these efforts. Bring your flyers and other materials!
Attracting your Ideal Soulmate
A metaphysical/spiritual examination of attracting a soulmate. By using these
ideas and theories you will attract your perfect mate. There is no reason for
anyone to be alone.
Butch/Femme relationships
A panel discussion among Butches and Femmes about how Butch and Femme identities
and relationships are included with, complimented by and even contradict the
trans movement. What's the difference between "roles" and
"identities"? Does Butch/Femme transcend the lesbian nation? Love,
sex, friendship, rivalry, and alliances are all up for grabs!
Butch/FTM - Butch/Butch Relationships Caucus
Exploration and discussion of the dynamics in Butch/FTM and Butch/Butch
relationships. How they are similar and different? Are we attracted to one type
of masculine person or many? Does this remain the same, or change with time?
Families in Transtion
This workshop is geared for couples, partners and other family members who are
living with the joys and struggles of gender transition. The workshop will be an
opportunity for significant others to talk about living with the ups and downs
of gender dysphoria, gender confusion, gender shifting, gender bending, gender
transition, and gender transformations. Issues to discuss will include the
impact of hormones, shifting sexual identity concerns, coming out to children,
and, of course, sexuality. All are welcome to attend but this workshop will
provide a safe space for SO's to focus on themselves.
Family Relationships: Coming Out and Coping
Parents discuss their own gender variant children, their struggle to understand,
school and neighborhood issues, finding the right kind of professional help and
more. The focus will be on teens to early college age, but all youth and adult
issues are also included. Panelists discuss coming out issues, helping families
understand, warming up parents, siblings and extended families, too. Educating
and dealing with family skeptics, what do they need to hear.
FEMME-TALK
Where do we stand in the queer community, as SOFFA's and as self identified
Femmes as our lovers/partners transition or change? Do our identities shift? Do
you no longer consider yourself a lesbian? Do we have problems within the queer
community? Where do we fit in? Have you experienced hostility, acceptance,
tolerance, rudeness or even danger? What about invisibility as feminine beings?
Do you have feelings of loss? Have
I Wasn't Queer Then -- A workshop for FTMs and SOs with
Heterosexual Pasts
A workshop for transmen who didn't come out of queer culture, but who diligently
tried to be "normal" women, not tomboys or butches. FTMs with
heterosexual pasts possibly complete with marriages, kids, and high femme
photos.
Mr. Mom and Other Trans/parents: Family, Law, and the PTA
Parenting is a difficult enough calling without the complication of a parent's
transition. Your relationship with your child may seem to contradict your own
identity as an individual. You may feel invisible as a parent or as a
transperson, depending on the context. Topics of discussion may include but are
not limited to: discussing your trans status with your children; custody and
adoption; blended families; your child's teachers, doctors, caregivers, peers,
and family of origin; naming; revealing your status; and negotiating identities.
Parents of T's Caucus
The Parents/Family caucus will provide a forum for both generations, trans and
non-trans persons, to share what worked well or not so well regarding: coming
out to parents, siblings, children and other extended family members; ways of
helping non-trans persons understand the compelling need to cross traditional
barriers; and ways of handling rejection with maximum dignity and minimum hurt.
PFLAG Reception
Straight Talk: Heterosexual Transmen
Heterosexual transmen supposedly make up the majority of those who transition
FTM, yet we seldom get the opportunity to talk about OUR issues: How do we
integrate into mainstream society? Do we need to relocate and "start
over?" What do we tell potential girlfriends? Do we have to learn "the
rules" of heterosexuality, or do we already know them? How do we discuss
our childhoods/pasts with friends/coworkers who do not know we are transsexual?
Do we tell the truth, tell "fill-in" lies, or stay quiet? How do we
feel as fathers or potential fathers? What if anything do we tell our children?
Who do we seek as friends: other transsexual men or heterosexual biomen?
Straight Women Caucus
A Caucus for Straight Identified Women only.
The Interplay of Difference: Creating Heterosexual Imagery
In this hands-on workhop, participants will be guided in the use of art
materials to express
Trans-Trans Intimacy & Sex
Explore possibilities, openly discuss sexual intimacy, discover alternative ways
of thinking about potential intimate partners. Address the issues of sex, love
and relationships.
Transensual Femme Caucus
Transsensual femmes identify as femmes, but our identities are intertwined with
our attraction to, and our lives with, ftm's, transmen, butches, or the many
varieties of gender difference in the ftm and butch communities. We will gather
to meet each other and discuss a variety of topics related to being transsensual
femmes - our partners, our sexuality, how we define
Transitioning Within a Long-Term Relationship (Caucus)
Bi/Pan/Poly/Pomo
So you don't feel you belong in the straight community, or gay, or queer?
Discussing how bisexuality, pansexuality, polyamoury and/or pomosexuality can
work to your advantage in creating happiness and finding a date!
Branding (after SM201)
Mini-workshop on Branding, directly following SM201.
Breaking A Sweat: The Fine Art of Cruising and Flirting with
Women
Tips, techniques and general inspirations for meeting and mating with the
ladies! Bring questions, scenarios, and fears to this fun, friendly, and
interactive forum.
Cock Talk: A Discussion about Sex and the Erotic for FTMs,
Transmen, and Butches
Explicit discussions about sexuality and the erotic, from what we do and how we
do it, to why we do what we do and how we negotiate with lovers, playmates,
partners, and spouses.
Daddies (FTM, Butch and BioMale) and Their Grrlz, Boyz, and
Admirers
The Daddy role: Who chooses it? Why? What does it mean to someone to be a Daddy?
And what does it mean to have a Daddy? Come meet Daddies, their grrlz and boyz,
as well as those who admire them as we discuss these and other questions.
Gay FTM Relationships Caucus
A panel to focus on being in and maintaining a relationship with gay non-trans
men or with other gay and bi FTMs. While dating and cruising are important in
finding that right man, this workshop will address issues of disclosure in
dating, sexual issues (including safer sex), relationship issues, homophobia
(both internal and external), visibility, and participation in the gay
community.
Gay/Bi-oriented-ftm how-to-flirt-with-men
Whether on the streets in Boyz town, the Castro (or your city's equivalent), or
trying to pick up a cute stud in a local bar, cruising men has many unique
nuances that are essential for a successful pick-up. Aspects of cruising in
public venues and more private locations will be discussed, as well as a
discussion about disclosure and negotiating for mutual satisfaction.
Piercing, pumping and Masculinizing Body Modification Caucus
(After SM101)
A discussion and possible demo on how pumping and piercing can accentuate our
genitals to have a greater male appearance.
Playing with Fire: A Discussion about Sex and the Erotic for
Lovers, Playmates, Partners, and Spouses of FTMs, Transmen, and Butches
Explicit discussions about sexuality and the erotic, from what we do and how we
do it, to why we do what we do and how we negotiate with lovers, playmates,
partners, and spouses.
Safer Sex and Intimacy: Hot, Wet and Wild
Safer sex doesn't have to be boring sex. Explore safer sex negotiation and
communication around desire and sexual practices, with a trans-specific focus.
Find ways of making your sex safer and hotter!
SM101 - Just the Basics Boyz
The basics of Leather and SM sexuality will be covered in this workshop. What is
(and what is not) SM? A frank discussion about various aspects of SM will
include concepts of Safe, Sane and Consensual; safewords; negotiation; SM safety
(physical and emotional); where to find toys (people and implements); and
initiating satisfying kinky encounters. A brief show and tell may follow.
SM201: Advanced Training
Beyond the basics. A workshop for players and SM enthusiasts already
knowledgeable about basic leathersex and SM. A discussion of how gender and SM
intermingle: gender-specific events, finding partners, tailoring SM activities
to meet the specific needs of gender variant players, and interacting with the
non-trans SM community. Discussion of 201+ SM practices including: singletail
whipping, sensory deprivation, immobilizing bondage, edge play, piercing,
cutting, branding, bloodsports, consensual-non-consensuality, and many other
areas.
Between The Worlds: A Spiritual Journey
Through the utilization of relaxation, visualization
exercises, creative expression (artwork, movement, rhythm, journaling,
meditation, etc.), and "shaman-esque" journeying, participants look
within at the ways in which they and others categorize themselves and then are
invited to transcend those labels and journey beyond the earthly/mundane into
spirit-space.
Moving Beyond Fear...Embracing Life
LessonsReligion and Trans intersect
What role does gender play in "organized" religion? What happens when
your religious "obligations" have shifted because of a gender
Gender Questioning and Youth Identity, what makes gender such
a hot topic for youth? An interface for youth and providers/adults.
A provider/adult and youth discussion on what issues are important to youth, and
how adults/providers can better support youth. This is not intended to directly
support youth, but rather as an opportunity for dialogue between adults and
youth.
Youth accessing medical care
Accessing medical and mental health care is a challenge regardless of age. Being
young, not having one's own insurance plan or financial resources, or even a car
or transportation to medical appointments can make medical care nearly
impossible for some youth. What options are available for youth? How can youth
access quality medical care that is free or low charge? Issues of parental
consent and access will be primary issues.
Youth Caucus
A caucus by youth, for youth only. Please respect the rights of the youth to
have a place to gather. If you identify as a youth, you are welcome. No age
restrictions will be enforced. Please use your judgment and be respectful.
Friday, January 28, 2000