Ive been going out with this guy for 5 months, and we have
broken up 4 times within that 5 months and he wont let go of
me, I broke it off with him and told him I just wanna be
friends and he started to cry and he said but I love you, and I
was his first real love, and gave me a necklace that meant
heaps to him, and he said he wanted me to have told him I liked
another guy, and that guy walked out when I was telling him,
and I looked at him, and he chucked a physco, and I walked
inside and he was being aggressive, chucking things etc.
Now he wont talk to me because its too hard, he says every time
he sees me he thinks something is going to happen, because
every time we brake up we make up, Now he is telling my mum
that I had sex with a guy that I liked, we have parties every
friday night at my house, and he comes up, and gets drunks and
trys kiss my sister, and another reason I broke up with him is
because he wanted a full on relationship and Im 14 and he is 17
and I think Im too young for that committment.
I wish I could talk to him as a friend but he wont talk to me.
He always tells me how much he loves me and then he asks for a
hug, so I give him a hug and he tries to kiss me and I refuse,
then he gets upset.
Please help me
Wow. 14 years old is pretty young. Then again, 17 is pretty young too.
Militant feminists will probably sit back and be smug when I point out
that you seem to be about a million times more mature than he is.
Or me, for that matter.
Anyway, since you've broken up with him 4 times, and you actually went through
the act of writing me about it, you've probably figured out that the guy
is a complete, total, confirmed by 9 out of 10 dentists Loser. If not,
I'm telling you right now that this guy is a complete, total, confirmed by 9 out of
10 dentists Loser. Got that? Good.
Dump his sorry loser ass for good, don't look back. Completely disconnect all
contact with him. If you see him somewhere, leave. If he calls, hang up. If he
breaks into your house, call the cops. Tell all your friends to do the same.
You're only 14, you've got plenty of time to build up a list of psycho ex-boyfriends,
it's unfortunate you've started now. Break the habit early, go out with nice guys
instead. They're easy to find, they're the ones who don't urinate in public.
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