What if you are in a relationship with someone for 9 months and get along good but have a (co-worker)friend of the opposite sex that you have always been kind of attracted to and have gone out as friends to movies and stuff but nothing ever happens.....but he always seems a little jealous of the significant other.....and it is pretty obvious that he has an attraction too....but what to do.....
Hmm.... what to do, what to do!
Sleep with 'em both. At the same time, if you're into that sort of thing.
Or pick one. Or the other. Your friend isn't going to make a move as long
as you're dating the other guy, and the other guy must not be winding your
clock quite as much as you'd like if you're mind is wandering over to
your co-worker. Beware, however, if you decide to dump your current for
the potential of your co-worker. You don't want to wind up using him
as a Rebound Guy. That would suck.
Personally, I say dump the boyfriend and, in no uncertain
terms, make a move on the friend.
When I say "no uncertain terms" I mean "no uncertain guy terms". A woman's
idea of what "no uncertain terms" and a guy's are adversity different.
Here's an example
Good luck, you're going to need it!
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