From a pitiful excuse for a person:
Hello, I really nead help. My boyfriend and I have been together four
three years. We were talking about marrage even. Then things started to
go bad. I would start fights, have trouble making him happy, annnoy him,
and the list just goes on and on. He broke everything off last week. I
am a mess. I realize now that I have made some really big mistakes, but
he says that he has heard that before and this is it. I know that eis
the one for me. I really have learned me lesson. I never knew how much
he ment to me until I have really lost him. He just wants me to move on
with my life and if he finds out that I am the one for him, he said that
I will be the first to know. I am a mess. I can not get by a day without
crying. I love him with all of my heart. He is my world. I do not want
to move on. All of my dreams and goals are with him. Help. I am going
nuts without him. I can not move on. I have to get him back. I want him
to see that I really have learned that I have to get him as much as I
want. HELP.
WARNING: This type of drivel pisses me off. This message may be rather angry. The Pollitcally Correct thing to do here would be to be nice, because this person probably doesn't have any control over their lameass personality problems, but I don't give two shits about being pc.
GET OVER IT!!!!
Get a life of your own. Buy one if you have to (Hint- try Prozac). Either grow a fucking spine, or go crawl off somewhere and die. Try to get this idea through your thick skull and into your needy brain-- He is not you world. He's not even your boyfriend anymore. He never will be again (unless he's as much of a pitiful looser as you are). Instead of tying up all your hopes and dreams with some schmuck you think you love, why don't you try doing things for yourself for once? It's called "being an individual" and billions of people do it every goddamn day.
Basically, you screwed up. Guess what? Everyone screws up. Most people look back as screwups and think "Whew, I'm never going to do that again!", and move on with their lives. You don't to want to do that, because you have no clue. You do really need help, but not the kind of help I give. You need some serious therapy, my dear. The sooner the better. Don't even think about starting another relationship (or trying to get your old one back) untill you've worked out your serious dependency problems. That'll prolly keep you busy till the end of the millenium.
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